The month of May is a busy month for me as there are 8 birthdays with my hubby’s 68th birthday on the 25th and mine coming up June 2nd. Ok, yes, June, but it’s so close to my husband’s so I just include it in the 8. Friends, my brother and the 2 of us went out to a nice restaurant for dinner which is a tradition we do with my friends, Peter and Ron, both born in October. So I chose 3 films that are about birthdays and hope you enjoy the read…
1. ON GOLDEN POND-1981
This was Henry Fonda’s last film but it’s a good one with Katherine Hepburn, playing his wife and Jane Fonda playing his daughter which was not out of keeping since she is Henry Fonda’s daughter. The old couple travel to their cottage to hear the loons and celebrate Fonda’s 80th birthday. He is a curmudgeon and talks about death while his wife tries to make him believe in life. Their daughter( Jane Fonda) comes with her fiancée ( Dabney Colman who just starred with Fonda as her sleazy boss in 9 to 5) and his young son. It’s a tense time since father and daughter had a difficult relationship, very similar to their real life relationship, and are unsure how to be with each other. They celebrate his 80th birthday before taking off to Europe for a month leaving the kid with the old couple. From there, the kid and the old man develop a special bond and the young kid learns so much. Both Fonda and Hepburn won Oscars for their roles but, I believe, Fonda won because, he never did and was going to die so better give one to him now. Jane Fonda credits Hepburn for helping her heal the wounds between her and her dad. It’s a nice film worth seeing.
2. 16 CANDLES-1984
I think this is the first film directed by John Hughes who also wrote this and stars many of his ensemble cast including Molly Ringworm..oops…Ringwald, Anthony Michael Hall, John Cusack and Joan Cusack. Molly plays the younger sister to her older sister who is getting married. She is just happy that it’s her 16th birthday but her happiness is dashed when she realizes that none of her family remembers her birthday because they are all consumed with the wedding. At school, you realize she has a crush with the football guy but she is pursued by the nerd who thinks he’s the coolest thing since nightmare whip. Enter her grandparents who say the most inappropriate things and bring their foreign exchange student whom they help out. There is the teen dance followed by a big party where Duck Dong enjoyed along with booze, Molly loses her panties to the nerd for a favour and the wedding day turns into a bit of a clown show. It’s a good movie even though I don’t care for Molly Ringworm and never got how she made it big. I don’t care about how bad it was to show Dong as a typical gag or that the popular girl is so drunk she could be taken advantage of because it’s just supposed fun so just enjoy and fast forward through the parts you dislike.
3. 13 GOING ON 30-2004
Jennifer Garner is a 13 year old who is having her birthday but is frustrated with her life and wishes she could be 30. When she awakes ( in a closet) she is 30 and is, at first scared but later embraces being 30. Somehow, she meets up with her childhood chum, played by Mark Ruffalo, convincing him she is the 13 year old whom, he thought, disappeared all those years ago. She gets a big job and is able to resurrect a dull executive party by dancing to Michael Jackson’s Thriller. I just watched this a couple of months ago and it was better than I thought it would be. It’s cute and fun and forgettable so perfect when you just need to unwind.
What birthday movies can you think of? I can’t wait to hear some of your choices.